Katharine on Stephen
What were you hoping for?
To meet someone new without preconceptions, and a fun evening.
First impressions?
I was just relieved he was there. He’d brought me flowers, which was lovely, and was reading a book – a nice change from looking at your phone.
What did you talk about?
Christmas. Family. The World Cup. Films. Music. Hobbies. Politics.
Most awkward moment?
When I got a bit bossy on the ordering. I’ll for ever be the woman who denied him a crab bisque – sorry, Stephen!
Good table manners?
Yes.
Best thing about Stephen?
That he seemed really comfortable in himself.
Would you introduce Stephen to your friends?
We talked about how much we enjoy sport – him, football; me, netball. He’d get on well with my netball team.
Describe Stephen in three words.
Tall, thoughtful, self-assured.
What do you think he made of you?
That I’m a complete chatterbox and didn’t give him a chance to get a word in edgeways. Other than that, hopefully that I was good company.
Did you go on somewhere?
No, we went our separate ways.
And … did you kiss?
No.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
How my head felt the next day, after the second bottle of wine.
Marks out of 10?
A strong 7.
Would you meet again?
I’d meet for a drink as friends.
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Stephen on Katharine
What were you hoping for?
A nice meal and pleasant conversation.
First impressions?
Confident, chatty, very friendly – I knew immediately it would be fun.
What did you talk about?
Top five films. Music and playlists. The novelty of a blind date. Family, kids and plans. Christmas presents.
Most awkward moment?
I don’t think there was one but, if I had to choose, going to the loo three times because I drank so much water.
Good table manners?
Impeccable. She chatted with our fellow diners, which was nice.
Best thing about Katharine?
She’s quite assertive, which was refreshing. I was clueless about a lot of the food, and the wine selection. I was pleased she took the lead there.
Would you introduce Katharine to your friends?
Without question.
Describe Katharine in three words.
Logical, pretty, fun.
What do you think she made of you?
“Has this guy got a UTI?” Joking. I hope she thought that I was equally friendly and chatty.
Did you go on somewhere?
Unfortunately not.
And … did you kiss?
Only pecks on the cheek.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
Chicken over rabbit leg – the leg was amazing, but it’s just so much effort.
Marks out of 10?
11 – the extra mark is because Katharine went above and beyond.
Would you meet again?
I’d like to … four hours just flew by.
Katharine and Stephen ate at Bianchis, Bristol. Fancy a blind date? Email [email protected]
