Sophia Bush is revealing the unique origins of her relationship with former US soccer star Ashlyn Harris: an ad hoc divorcée support group.
In a deeply personal essay for her April 2024 Glamour cover story, Bush reveals that the pair first met in 2019 and became good friends. However, as Bush began to navigate her divorce from her now ex-husband in summer 2023, she ended up connecting with other women in her life who were dealing with their own relationship struggles.
Over time the women formed a community where they opened up to one another about what they were dealing with, and Harris soon joined in as she dealt with her split from her then wife, a fellow soccer star with whom she shares two young children. For Bush, the group was a lifeline.
“For those of us who had no solution in sight or Hail Marys left, having this community changed everything,” she writes. “We really wrapped one another up in support. It was tragic and hard. But it was also beautiful.”
The women, she says, would share inspirational quotes and books with one another, life advice, or just silly TikToks and memes. They created a “Begin Again” Amazon shopping list with items a woman may need when moving out of a shared space, which Bush says has now been shared with many others who need such a resource. Eventually Bush and Harris’s relationship began to deepen in ways neither of them saw coming.
