4 lingerie personality types, and what your underwear choices say about you.
Did you ever buy a sexy little red lace thong – or something similar – just because you thought it was pretty? You completely ignored that little voice in the back of your mind that was whispering “you’ll never wear it – ever.”
You bought it anyway, because maybe you wanted to give your lingerie drawer – and your life – an upgrade. Maybe buying that red thong revealed part of your personality. Maybe it revealed a need for more excitement.
C’mon, dig deep.
I believe that, like heels make you taller, the right bra and underwear can make you more confident. Matching lacy underwear can boost your confidence. It can do so until you’re literally glowing.
Or maybe that’s just your face turning beet red. It’s because you’re embarrassed to be wearing your skimpy little thong, even though no one else can see it.
It may be making you uncomfortable in more ways than one.
If that’s the case, the style just wasn’t right for you – it doesn’t match your lingerie personality.
If you’re anything like me, maybe you never even wear some of the lingerie styles you buy. Maybe that little – and expensive – red thong quickly made its way to the back corner of the lingerie drawer. It was never to be seen again.
We’ve all made fashion mistakes, and probably have the proof hanging in our closets. Underwear is no different – especially for those of us who love to shop for lingerie.
So here’s why you need to know your lingerie personality. There are lots of sexy and pretty bra and panty styles out there. Find the one that’s right for you, by getting to know yourself a little better first.
And then you’ll be shopping for new underwear that won’t ever be banished to the back of your drawer.
What’s a Lingerie Personality?
First, the basics, in case you’re wondering.
If you didn’t know you had a lingerie personality, you do. Every woman does. Even if you stick to buying white cotton briefs – guess what that says about you?
You’re revealing your practical side.
The style choices we make every day – from our hairstyle right down to our undies – says a lot about who we are. So, isn’t it always fun to get to know ourselves a little better?
I enjoy taking quizzes in magazines like Cosmo. These quizzes reveal if I’m a flirty tease or hopeless romantic. This guide to finding your lingerie personality is unique.
I made these questions to ask yourself. I wanted you to get to know your style better. It just comes down to simple likes and dislikes.
Your answers will reveal the lingerie personality type that fits your style best. But I made each lingerie personality to be a shopping persona. They are a guide to know which styles to buy. This way, you can avoid wasting money on the skimpy little things you’ll never wear. (I apologize if my lingerie personalities aren’t as fun – or outrageously ridiculous – as a Cosmo quiz!)
Just remember – there is no “rule” that says you are just one personality type, so read through all the questions. That’s the worst part of those other types of quizzes. I could easily see myself answering each question differently. It would depend on my mood that day. Don’t think anyone is just one type. We all have many sides to our personalities. It’s fun to reveal them.
This guide will help some of you. It will stop you from wasting money on lacy red thongs if you just want a comfy cotton brief. And it will help the reverse too.
When you’re done here, move on to Your Lingerie Personality, Part 2, to find out more…
Are You Addicted to Lingerie?
You’re a trendy fashionista. Shopping is a sport for you – and if it were, you’d be in the major leagues. You love to try on racy lingerie styles, just for the fun of it. You’re addicted to the sexy and powerful feeling from wearing fancy lace. You have bras to match all of your outfits.
You know you are addicted to lingerie when.
You always try to match your bra to your top, and your undies.
You believe women should wear lace every day.
You own more than two pairs of thigh high stockings.
You know the difference between different garter belt styles.
You own more than one bra with 3-part cups.
You know the difference between a balconet and a bralette.
You can hold up a bra in the store and know instantly if it’s a balconet or traditional push-up style.
You currently own most types of panty styles. You have tried at least once g-strings, or thongs, bikinis, briefs, and boyshorts.
You know a lot about panty styles. Your knowledge includes every subtle variation, like the cheeky boyshort and brazilian thong.
You have purchased a corset – or, a steel-boned one, one custom made-to-your-measurements.
You know who Marlies Dekkers is.
You know all about the designers who have made Madonna’s corsets and bustiers.
You often sleep in a babydoll or chemise.
You watch Victoria’s Secret fashion shows every year. You haven’t missed an episode of Double Divas.
You can’t wait or Valentine’s Day, to check out all the cute pink and red styles printed with hearts.
You have at least one pair of bikini underwear that has a message printed on your butt.
You’re a devoted fan of the blog, The Lingerie Addict – and read it religiously.
If at least 6 of the above traits describes you, what’s your lingerie personality?
I think you may have a full-fledged Lingerie Addiction.
Your Lingerie Personality: Are you a Comfort-Craver?
Feeling good is sexy to you – and if your lingerie looks as good as it feels, then that’s just a bonus.
Your style is cool, confident and effortless. You know the secret to looking good is wearing underwear that fits well – because it’ll make you feel even better. You know how to channel your inner beauty.
You prefer practical shopping over lingerie shopping. You sometimes buy expensive bikinis as a treat. But mostly, you stick to basics. Your lingerie drawer is filled with everyday styles. It has lots of seamless T-shirt and wire-free bras.
You’re a Comfort-Craver if…
Time is a luxury for you, not fancy underwear – so you look for styles that are easy to wear. And the faster you can find styles that are right for your body type, the better.
You sometimes think your life’s mission has been to find a more comfortable bra.
You would rather be doing anything else than shopping for lingerie. You just want to find flattering styles that fit. Is that too much to ask?
You love to stock up on 6-packs of bikini underwear when you find a good sale.
You’re a label reader – you like to know what your lingerie is made from before buying.
You’re a fan of eco-friendly organic materials like cotton. You want to know more about “green” lingerie brands.
Soft wire-free bras and seamless T-shirt styles fill your lingerie drawer.
You’re excited about the latest high-tech lingerie styles. They are super-functional. They include bras made from aloe-infused fabric. And, seamless “invisible” undies that don’t show lines under clothing.
Pretty camis often peek out from underneath your blouse.
When you shop for hosiery, you always look for tights made from comfortable microfiber. They must lack a control top. And, you don’t like thigh-highs either.
You don’t own a garter belt.
You consider steel-boned corsets and bullet bras to be old-fashioned torture devices.
You wear shapewear very rarely. But, when you do, you prefer Spanx or another comfy brand. They offer seamless styles that are easy to wear.
If at least 4 of the above traits describes you, what’s your lingerie personality?
I’s say you can consider yourself a Comfort-Craver.
Iskra Banović is our seasoned Editor-in-Chief at Blufashion. She has been steering the website’s content and editorial direction since 2018. With a rich background in fashion design, Iskra’s expertise spans across fashion, interior design, beauty, lifestyle, travel, and culture.